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  Once you leave the path of simple consciousness�察�you enter the labyrinth of cleverness�察�competition�察�and imitation。
  When a lesser person forgets that all creation is a unity�察�allegiance goes to lesser wholes such as the family�察�the home team�察�or the company。
  Nationalism�察�racism�察�classism�察�sexism�此�all arise as consciousness of unity is lost。 People take sides and favour this versus that。

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  Forget those clever techniques and self´improvement programs�察�and everyone will be better off。
  Do not promise to cure people�察�to make people feel good�察�to make life sane or fair or humane。 Do not offer programs that appeal to selfishness�察�programs that teach how to be rich�察�powerful�察�sexy ´ and greedy�察�paranoid�察�an manipulative。
  No teacher can make you be happy�察�prosperous�察�healthy�察�or powerful。 No rules or techniques can enforce these qualities。
  If you wish to improve yourself�察�try silence or some other cleansing discipline that will gradually show you your true selfless self。

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  Our job is to facilitate process and clarify conflicts。 This ability depends less on formal education than on common sense and traditional wisdom。
  The highly educated leader tends to respond in terms of one theoretical model or another。 It is better simply to respond directly to what is happening here and now。
  Make sure that any model you do have is compatible with traditional wisdom�察�admire the wise of all religions。
  For example�察�most people act in order to fill their desires。 They believe that the world serves them。 But the wise leader serves others and is relatively desireless�察�even defenseless。
  Most people are plagued by endless needs�察�but the wise leader is content with relatively little。 Most people lead busy lives�察�but the wise leader is quiet and reflective。 Most people seek stimulation and novelty�察�but the wise leader refers what is common and natural。
  Being content permits simplicity in life。 What is common is universal。 What is natural is close to the source of creation。
  This is traditional wisdom。

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  All power and effectiveness come from following the law of creation。 There is no substitute for knowing how things happen and for acting accordingly。
  Everything�察�like it or not�察�is bounded by this principle。 The principle is like the blueprint for everything。
  All power derives from conscious or unconscious cooperation with the principle。
  The single principle is manifest everywhere�察�all the time。
  All birth and growth and death that ever happened�察�or is happening today�察�or will happen in the future behaves according to this one rule of existence。
  To be sure�察�new forms do emerge with the passage of time�察�but they still conform to the same old principle。
  How do I know that Tao is universal��
  I cannot answer that rationally。 I know it from being silent。 I know it by virtue of God。

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  When I let go of what I am�察�I become what I might be。 When I let go of what I have�察�I receive what I need。
  These are feminine or Yin paradoxes��
  ´ By yielding I endure。
  ´ The empty space is filled。
  ´ When I give of myself�察�I become more。
  ´ When I feel most destroyed�察�I am about to grow。
  ´ When I desire nothing�察�a great deal comes to me。
  Have you ever struggles to get work or love and finally given up and found both love and work were suddenly there��
  Do you want to be free and independent�拭�Conform to God's law�察�that is how everything happens anyway。
  When I give up trying to impress the group�察�I become very impressive。 But when I am just trying to make myself look good�察�the group knows that and does not like it。
  My best work is done when I forget my own point of view�察�the less I make of myself�察�the more I am。
  When I yield to the wishes of the person working�察�I encounter no resistance。
  This is the wisdom of the feminine�此�let go in order to achieve。 The wise leader demonstrates this。

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  The wise leader speaks rarely and briefly。 After all�察�no other natural outpouring goes on and on。 It rains and then it stops。 It thunders and then it stops。
  The leader teaches more through being than through doing。 The quality of one's silence conveys more than long speeches。
  Be still。 Follow your inner wisdom。 In order to know your inner wisdom�察�you have to be still。
  The leader who knows how to be still and feel deeply will probably be effective。 Bu the leader who chatters and boasts and tries to impress the group has no center and carries little weight。
  Tao works for those who follow Tao。 God serves those who serve God。 When you are in touch with the single principle�察�your actions will be effective。 But if you are simply being egocentric�察�or if you are just trying to be dramatic�察�you will neither do good nor look good。
  Remember that the method is awareness´of´process。 Reflect。 Be still。
  What do you deeply feel��

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  Trying too hard produces unexpected results��
  ´ The flashy leader lacks stability。
  ´ Trying to rush matters gets you nowhere。
  ´ Trying to appear brilliant is not enlightened。
  ´ Insecure leaders try to promote themselves。
  ´ Impotent leaders capitalize on their position。
  ´ It is not very holy to point out how holy you are。
  All these behaviours come from insecurity。 They feed insecurity。 None of them helps the work。 None contributes to the leader's health。
  The leader who knows how things happen does not do these things。
  Consider��
  When do you think that you are so good�察�what are you comparing yourself with�拭�God�拭�Or your own insecurities��
  Do you want fame�拭�Fame will complicate your life and compromise simplicity in your comings and goings。
  Is it money�拭�The effort of trying to get rich will steal your time。
  Any form of egocentricity�察�of selfishness�察�obscures your deeper self and blinds you to how things happen。

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  This is what Tao is not��
  ´ It is not a thing。
  ´ It is not a sound or any other vibration。
  ´ It is not divisible into parts。
  ´ It does not change。
  ´ It cannot be diluted or augmented。
  ´ It has no partner or complement。
  This is what Tao is��
  ´ It is one�察�it is unity。
  ´ It determines everything。
  ´ It comes before everything。
  ´ It is the law of everything。
  The clearest�察�most helpful word I know how to use for Tao is How�察�because Tao is the principle of how everything works。
  Remember that while it has no form or qualities�察�it is everywhere�察�all the time�察�forever。
  Imagine four levels of infinity�察�people are infinite in a sense�察�the earth is infinite�察�the cosmos is infinite�察�Tao is infinite。 Although each of these four may be infinite in a way�察�the first three are subject to the next greater one。
  People are dependent on the earth。 The earth is dependent on the cosmos。 The cosmos is dependent on Tao。
  But Tao is not dependent on anything。

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  The leader who is centered and grounded can work with erratic people and critical group situations without harm。
  Being centered means having the ability to recover one's balance�察�even in the midst of action。 A centered person is not subject to passing whims or sudden excitements。
  Being grounded means being down´to´earth�察�having gravity or weight。 I know where I stand�察�and I know what I stand for�此�that is ground。
  The centered and grounded leader has stability and a sense of self。
  One who is not stable can easily get carried away by the intensity of leadership and make mistakes of judgement or even become ill。

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  An experienced leader does not need a packaged tour to go places safely。
  A good political speech does not need to make promises or antagonize the crowd。
  A good mathematician does not need a computer to solve every problem。
  A secure home does not have bolts and bars and locks and alarms everywhere�察�yet a burglar cannot get inside。
  The wise leader's ability does not rest on techniques or gimmicks or set exercises。 The method of awareness´of´process applies to all people and all situations。
  The leader's personal state of consciousness creates a climate of openness。 Center and ground give the leader stability�察�flexibility�察�and endurance。
  Because the leader sees clearly�察�the leader can shed light on others。
  The group members need the leader for guidance and facilitation。 The leader needs people to work with�察�people to serve。 If both do not recognize the mutual need to love and respect one another�察�each misses the point。
  They miss the creativity of the student´teacher polarity。 They do not see how things happen。

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  The leader can act as a warrior or as a healer。 As a warrior�察�the leader acts with power and decision。 That is the Yang or masculine aspect to leadership。
  Most of the times�察�however�察�the leader acts as a healer and is in an open�察�receptive�察�and nourishing state。 That is the feminine or Yin aspect of leadership。
  This mixture of doing and being�察�of warrior and healer�察�is both productive and potent。
  There is a third aspect of leadership�此�Tao。 Periodically�察�the leader withdraws from the group and returns to silence�察�returns to God。
  Being�察�doing�察�being 。。。 Tao。 I withdraw in order to empty myself of what has happened�察�you replenish my spirit。
  A brilliant warrior does not make every possible brilliant intervention。 A knowing healer takes time to nourish self as well as others。
  Such simplicity and economy is a valuable lesson。 It deeply affects the group。
  The leader who knows when to listen�察�when to act�察�and when to withdraw can work effectively with nearly anyone�察�even with other professionals�察�group leaders�察�or therapists�察�perhaps the most difficult and sophisticated group members。
  Because the leader is clear�察�the work is delicate and does not violate anybody's sensibilities。

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  Too much force will backfire。 Constant interventions and instigations will not make a good group。 They will spoil a group。
  The best group process is delicate。 It cannot be pushed around。 It cannot be argued over or won in a fight。
  The leader who tries to control the group through force does not understand grou
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